Should I Buy Her Flowers or Not?

There is a girl who flirts with me all the time and i have liked her for a long time. We talked for a while almost a year ago. But then she got a boyfriend and they have dated for a while now. She recently broke up with him (but they still are pretty much together) and i told her i liked her and she said she likes me too. I wanted to get her flowers and have them delivered on Christmas as a surprise and i was wondering if this is a good idea?

Should I Buy Her Flowers or Not?
i didnt read your whole question but YES. flowers always eemt o be a good idea people like them way more than youd think
Reply:Only buy her flowers if it is over between her and her boyfriend. If it's not quite, then maybe get her a little something that's more on the friend level, but that will make her think of you. Your so sweet, she's lucky. I wish my husband would buy me flowers:)





Hmmm... I'm editing this because I just read Doug J's answer and that's pretty sexy. Maybe do that:)
Reply:Flowers are never a bad idea, unless a guy is a stalker. LOL
Reply:YES!!!! but not red roses (unless Valentines Day), they mean you're sorry for something you've done. I would find out her favorite flower(s) and send her those with a little teddy or something. HAND PICK THEM AS WELL!!! IT SHOWS THAT YOU TAKE THE TIME TO SHOW YOU CARE!!!
Reply:Naw let the wind blow for awhile %26amp; see where it takes her.She may go back with him.Just hang in there.
Reply:hmm ussually on christmas day is reserved for family. Maybe try it on the day before christmas, i think she'll like it.
Reply:yes becaaaaauuuuseee you could get layed
Reply:ya its relly a nice idea


just go for it


dont forget to buy red roses......
Reply:When you buy flowers different colours mean different feelings..like red is for romance......if you have feelings for her maybe something like red is good.........





If she is back with her boyfriend now then I say move on....otherwise...





I suggest to give her some flowers is a nice box on her doorstep with a card...
Reply:you should find out if she likes flowers or not. personally im not a flower type of girl. If shes like me, save the fifty bucks it will cost to send her flowers, and get tickets to her favorite movie or show, or something and give them to her in hopes she invites you.
Reply:yea sounds good, but dont let her play you
Reply:You were wondering if it's a good idea...or if it's safe?





Good idea = yes.


safe = no.





The idea of giving flowers means taking a step forward..


and to do that means risk of rejection.





well if you want to be with her...


then you have to take that risk.





which means that giving her flowers will either really help you..


or flat out end your "flirty" friendship.





so it's up to you if you want to risk it.





but there is no easy way of being with someone.





to be with them..you have to risk everything you have with them.





don't hold back..ever.


because you might miss out on something that could be pretty amazing.
Reply:Yes.
Reply:i think it is. as long as the other guy isnt involved anymore. you wouldent want to seem like your butting in from anyones point of view. but if they broke up, they broke up right? and you have liked her for a LONG time. so yes, do it!!!
Reply:yeah go for it, don't miss out this chance, it maybe a good start for you :)
Reply:that is so sweet.... that is a great idea then she would really know that you do like her....do it she will love you for it.....good luck
Reply:U should buy her flowers. Give yourself and her a chance.
Reply:That is a very good idea.She will appreciate it and she will know how specially you feel about her.That should make her easier to approch if you ever ask her out.
Reply:yes
Reply:sure, dats sweet
Reply:No. Grow a pair and tell her you want to date her. Then ask her out on a specific day and time. Have the date planned out and tell her whether it's a formal occasion or not. In other words, quit nancy-pantsing around and take charge of dating her. If she acts offended (which she probably won't be as long as you're sincere and respectful), she probably wasn't that into you anyway. Most women like a fellow with a bit of confidence though and will go out with you to check you out. At the end of the date if you feel like she wants to be kissed, kiss her. Don't be pushy or crude, but do it like a natural part of the evening. After you break the kiss, smile, say good night and walk away. Don't look back; just walk. She will be thinking about you for the rest of the night and will call three friends about you.
Reply:giving a girl flowers is never a bad idea!
Reply:YES. DO IT.





Love Jack