Send flowers or bring flowers?

So me and this girl have been seeing eachother exclusively for almost 4 months and we've been talking since end of last year. As to why we're not officially together, it's not because im afraid to commit it's more that im afraid to ask her because sometimes i get the feeling she isn't ready and I don't want to jump the gun and scare her away. But we're really close and show affection in public and stuff. Anyway, her birthday is coming up and she invited me to her party that her family and friends usually have for her and I'm certain I want to give her flowers but should I send them or bring them to her personally. I feel like I want to bring them to her personally but I don't want to give her family the idea that we're in a serious relationship because I don't know how she feels about the idea yet and that maybe it would be more subtle if I had them delivered that morning. Could this be her way of introducing me to her family on that serious relationship term?

Send flowers or bring flowers?
If you bring them, make sure you also bring a vase so she can set them out not go try to find something to put them in.





If you send them, her family will ooh and ahh and mention it when you arrive.


If you bring them, they will make a big deal right in front of you. Which are you most comfortable with?
Reply:Bring them to her personally. It's adorable, plus, just because you're bringing her a bouquet of flowers doesn't mean you're giving of a "serious relationship vibe".
Reply:i personally think you should send them. it just have a thing to it.





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Reply:send them - it's more fun for a girl that way.
Reply:send
Reply:By bringing or sending flower will never mean you are going to marry her!! for God's sake!


It's her birthday, you guys are "dating", it's totally appropiate to bring her flowers with a little present.


Or...if she works, sent the flowers to her office!!! she will love it! and then bring a the little present to the party.
Reply:Send them with a stripper. Nothing says class like a chippendale!





Also, flowers die in a week. Give her weed.
Reply:Bring them to her, so she sees you AND gets the flowers. 2/2 :D
Reply:Aw i was just thinking about this today.


I think send them, so she gets them on the morning of her birthday, delivered to her door or whatever.


Then just take a rose or something extra to the dinner thing that her family is having.
Reply:First off, the "flower" idea is great, it's one of the best way to say a woman is special. I think at this point, have it delivered would be better, since your afraid how she would react. Inviting you to a party w/ her family, is a good thing, she wants her family to meet you %26amp; get to know you. Lastly, get to know each other, do not rush into anything, it seems like you guys are heading towards the right direction, "never" ever assume anything. Before you get "into deep", make sure that you guys are both on the same page %26amp; the feeling is mutual, otherwise it may be a "heartache" waiting to happen %26amp; you do not want that..
Reply:Show up with flowers.
Reply:i'm going to say this and your not going to like it.


you need and will want to be able at some point to do things that you want or need to do (things that don't hurt people of course) that said, you are being controlling by all this should i or shouldn't i. think about it, do you really want to be with someone that will not react positively to flowers or how you give them or when? you sound like you are on the rope and she's not. why is that?? are you really that desperate? does she do this with you or just you with her?


they are FLOWERS not a dimond ring, kids, house and 50 more years of looking at each other.


chill out and go with your heart and gut, if she gets strange...she aint the one. and you cant spend the rest of your life trying to guess which way is right and trickin' her and the parents can you? or can you?
Reply:You bring flowers to an occasion . You send flowers after the occasion . For a birthday party bring no more then three roses and another small gift .
Reply:I would like it more if a guy brought them to me. But be careful what colors you pick. Certain colors can mean certain things…
Reply:take them with you, girls love flowers, i'm sure she'd be pleased
Reply:Id say take them to her in person. Its her birthday so I dont think the parents would get the wrong idea. They might even think your a respectable guy bringing her a gift rather than just showing up. Also, ive been sent flowers and recieved them in person and i love seeing a guy walk up with flowers in his hand knowing thier mine, its a good feeling