Friday, November 13, 2009

Can a woman give another woman flowers on Valentines day?

I have this best friend of 9 1/2 years and we haven't been speaking for about 5 months. I called her last week and she said she needs more time alone, but I need her friendship now, I've already given her 5months alone. Should I have flowers and chocolate deliver at her job or would she think I'm gay or something? By the way I'm 100% staright.

Can a woman give another woman flowers on Valentines day?
you two have been friends for 91/2 years so she shouldnt think its gay to be recieving flowers and chocolate from her best friend. if she says she needs for time then just give her some more time, then after a while call her again and ask her whats bothering her.





hope it all works out for you two.
Reply:i think you should offer to take her for a girls night out. make sure she understands you;ll wait until shes ready to hangout/ talk.
Reply:i see nothing wrong with that. In this crazy world a women can marry a woman.
Reply:I don't think I would send flowers and chocolate, that would be sending her the wrong message. Maybe a teddy bear with an I miss you card.
Reply:Sure.I just got an SMS from my bestie for Valentines Day,it doesn't mean you are gay.


In your situation though she might find it a bit pushy-maybe leave it a little longer and then send flowers out of the blue.
Reply:you guys are best friends for 9 years....why would she think you were gay to send her flowers. Valentines day is ultimately about love and love is not just for couples in relationships. On the other hand although i dont doubt your 100% straightness...but why are you forcing yourself on her when she just told you she needs time alone?
Reply:Know what you mean...I miss a friend I once had...send just flowers with a card that says "Hope you are haveing a great day, I miss our friendship"


Hope this works
Reply:If two women can get naked and sleep together i dont see why not
Reply:I've given and received flowers from my best friend, and we are also straight. It's very nice, and I think you should. However, I would skip the chocolate because both flowers and chocolate appears to be a little too romantic for comfort.
Reply:Gay..........
Reply:I don't see anything wrong with it. Good friends love each other and Valentines Day is about all kinds of love, not just romantic love. It might let her know you really care about your friendship.
Reply:Yes that is normal but you need to let her know that your not gay before you do any thing. Because she might take it to seriously, but I think that is great.
Reply:Sure! A friend can give another friend flowers- it's a kind gesture! Women get flowers of sympathy when a loved one dies, women get flowers of kindness from a friend, and women do get flowers from men- but that is the least important kind!


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